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Nov. 6, 2009

WOMAN OBJECTS TO GIVING CELL PHONE NUMBER TO HER BOSS

DEAR ABBY: My boss wants my cell phone number for "work pur-
poses." He has trouble with limits, and I am reluctant to
give it to him. I don't want to receive text messages,
unsolicited calls or contact outside of work. My private
life is just that -- private.

I have kept an unlisted cell number for many years for good
reason. I have a home phone and will answer it when the boss
calls. I arrive promptly at work, but leave the job there.

My privacy is important. I had a bad marriage, and there was
stalking and invasion by my ex-husband. Those individuals who
need my cell number have access to it.

Am I out of line? I realize that many people use their cell
phones as their only phones and others don't mind receiving
calls, but am I required to do so?

I think this has upset my boss even though I have explained
my reason. I don't use my cell phone on the job; it's in my
purse except during personal time (lunch, etc.). Must I give
up my privacy to keep my job?
-- WANTS PRIVACY

DEAR WANTS PRIVACY: As long as your boss has your home phone
and can reach you in case of some emergency, I see no reason
why he should be pressuring you for your cell phone number.
Stick to your guns and don't apologize for it.

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DEAR ABBY: I'm a 16-year-old girl whose parents have been
married for almost 19 years. Mom started school two years
ago to become a nurse.

She has always been an independent woman, but since she went
back to school and is making her own money, she feels the
need to be more free. Mom works eight to 12 hours a day. She
leaves early and comes home late. She never stays for dinner
when she's home, nor does she do anything with us as a family
anymore. She used to work in the same study as my dad, but
she moved upstairs. She also won't sleep in the same bed as
Dad.

Mom is seeing a marriage counselor, and she wants a divorce
and to move away. She says nothing is broken in the marriage
and there's nothing to fix -- but why does she want to leave?
She promises she won't see less of us, but she will be more
than a half-hour away. She works nonstop and is constantly
going out with her friends. I miss her, and I want my old
Mom back! Is there any way I can stop her from going? Am I
selfish for wanting her to stay?
-- SHAKEN IN VIRGINIA

DEAR SHAKEN: You are going through a rough period, and you
have my sympathy. Your mother appears to be so preoccupied
with herself that she has forgotten she's a mother. Under
the circumstances, all of your feelings are normal. Of
course you want your mother and your old life back, and those
feelings aren't "selfish."

While you can't stop your mother from leaving, you can ask
her if you can join her during a couple of her therapy ses-
sions so you can air your feelings in a safe environment
and get some of the answers you're looking for. There are
very real changes going on in your life and your parents'.
You deserve some answers, and you are old enough to hear
them.



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send a business-size, self-addressed envelope, plus check
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(Postage is included in the price.)


Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as
Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline
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