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WIRELESS HEADPHONES
w/ Built-In FM Scan Radio

TV & Store Price: $14.99
OUR PRICE: $3.99

These Wireless Headphones With Built-In FM Radio allow you to
enjoy music anywhere in your home or office without any wires.

The manufacturer says you can use these for up to 30 feet away
from the base. Our testing says it is closer to 20 feet.

They're Easy To Use... The transmitter quickly connects to any
receiver, DVD player, gaming systems, computers and more
with the RCA adapter (included).

FIVE (5) FUNCTIONS IN ONE:
- Wireless Headphones - Internet Chat/Gaming - Audio Monitoring
- FM Auto-Scan Radio -Wired Audio Connection

If you're looking for a pair of wireless headphones that are a
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Oct. 14, 2009

TEEN IN DESPAIR PLEADS FOR HELP AND GUIDANCE

DEAR ABBY: I am a 15-year-old girl who is losing the will
to live. I am bisexual, but my parents are very anti-gay/
lesbian, so I can't tell them about my sexual orientation.

Every day I engage in self-injury using a metal chain, and I
think about suicide a lot. Please help me.
-- HURTING IN ORLANDO, FLA.

DEAR HURTING: As you already know, your sexual orientation
isn't something you chose. It is something you were born
with, and your parents' disapproval -- as intimidating as
it may be -- isn't going to change it. What you are experi-
encing is not uncommon in young people who have discovered
they are "different." But there is help, not only for you
but also for your parents.

The first thing you should do is contact The Trevor Helpline.
It is a nationwide, 24-hour helpline for lesbian, gay, bi-
sexual, transgender and questioning young people. A counselor
there can help you sort out your feelings and figure out some
options. You can find out more about it by going to
="abbylink">www.thetrevorproject.org.
The toll-free number is (866) 488-7386.

Another terrific resource is PFLAG (Parents, Families and
Friends of Lesbians and Gays). PFLAG was established in the
1980s and offers specific advice on how to deal with your
parents. You will find its Web site at
www.pflag.org.

Both of these organizations provide the support you need,
so please don't wait to contact them.

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Timesaver Key Holder with Built-In Clock & Voice Record Memo
This is sure to help organize your life...

List Price: $29.99
DEAL PRICE: $12.99
Get two pair for $19.98

There are so many features (see below) but my favorite has
to be the Voice Memo. How cool is it to be able to leave a
message for your kid or spouse reminding them of something
as they grab their keys to leave?

With no effort at all it easily attaches to your refrigerator
with super-strength magnets or use the slots on back to hang
on any wall.

FEATURES:
- Magnetic Key Holders and Color Coded Key Chains for Easy Access
- Displays The Day & Time
- Displays the Indoor Temperature
- Alarm Function with 8 Tones to Choose From
- Countdown Time Function
- Voice Message System (Flashing green light indicates a message)
- Measures: 8.27"x.83"x3.94"

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DEAR ABBY: My heart is broken. My 18-year-old son, "Joey,"
has just put his name on someone else's child's birth certi-
ficate. He met the girl in high school. She was already
pregnant. Joey has been out of school since May. He has no
job, no money and no car.

Joey promised her family he will "take care of her." They
were only too happy to hear it because the real father wants
nothing to do with her or the baby. Her parents have made my
son feel like a hero, and he enjoys it.

I did everything in my power to talk him out of it. Nothing
worked. I can't believe that the girl's family is encouraging
him. Joey is not a man, even if he is 18. Where are their
values?
-- HEARTBROKEN MOM IN MESA, ARIZ.

DEAR MOM: Your son may feel like a hero, but apparently he
was not thinking rationally when he put his name on that
birth certificate, because what he did was fraud. The father
of that baby should be listed as the father, and he is the
one who should be financially responsible until the child
reaches adulthood. If Joey wants to lend emotional support,
more power to him. But I'm advising you to consult an attor-
ney to see if this mess can be unraveled before he gets in
any deeper.

DEAR ABBY: I am 22 years old and stuck in a long-term rela-
tionship. My boyfriend has taken care of me since my mother
died last year. She was my only family, so without my boy-
friend I'd be alone.

My problem is, I am no longer attracted to him. I don't want
to hurt his feelings because of everything he has helped me
through, but is a relationship worth staying in if you don't
feel the "connection" anymore?
-- ALONE IN THE SOUTH

DEAR ALONE: No, it's not, and it's also not fair to your
boyfriend. Sooner or later you will have to level with him
and tell him that, while you're deeply grateful for his
support during this difficult time, you have come to regard
him as more of a brother than a lover, and while you'll
always care for him, the romance is over.



Good advice for everyone -- teens to seniors -- is in
"The Anger in All of Us and How to Deal With It." To order,
send a business-size, self-addressed envelope, plus check or
money order for $6 (U.S. funds only) to: Dear Abby -- Anger
Booklet, P.O. Box 447, Mount Morris, IL 61054-0447. (Postage
is included in the price.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as
Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline
Phillips. Write Dear Abby at
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or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.