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July 7, 2010

HUSBAND IS WAY OUT OF LINE POSTING SEX PHOTOS ONLINE

DEAR ABBY: "Aaron" and I have been married five years, and I
have always tried to keep our sex life "spicy." Letting him
take private X-rated photos and videos of me seemed fun at
the time.

I recently learned that my "private" photos and videos have
been on the Internet and shared with Aaron's buddies, co-
workers and friends. I am shocked, embarrassed and hurt. When
I confronted him, he said, "You're beautiful, and I enjoy
sharing you with other guys!" I was dumbfounded at his re-
sponse. I have tried talking to him, and he just doesn't see
my objections.

Every time I see one of our friends, I wonder if Aaron has
shared my "beauty" with him. I'm too embarrassed to talk to
my minister about this. I have lost my trust in my husband
and don't know what I should do now.
-- X-POSED IN ILLINOIS

DEAR X-POSED: What your husband has done is the equivalent
of inviting his buddies, co-workers, friends, etc. into your
bedroom during your most intimate moments. Your trust was
violated and your feelings are understandable. That he would
disregard your feelings in the matter is, frankly, shocking.

What you should do now is contact a licensed marriage coun-
selor to figure out if, with professional help, you can help
your immature and insensitive husband reorganize his priori-
ties.


DEAR ABBY: Twenty years ago I was in love with "Connie," a
girl who was my best friend and soul mate. We had so much in
common. Connie was chubby -- not fat, just not a size 3.

Being 22 at the time, I became infatuated with "Lisa," who
was a size 3. Lisa was also jealous, insecure and still tied
to her mother. I snapped one day and left her -- the smartest
thing I have ever done.

By then, of course, Connie had moved on, and I deeply regret
my wandering eye, lack of sensitivity and misplaced values.
My life would be so much happier had I done what was right
instead of being stupid.

Connie, I am told, is happily married, and I would not wreck
her marriage. I have remained single. I don't know if you
can offer me advice, but if my experience can help another
young man to recognize the beauty within, he will be happier
than I am.
-- WISER NOW IN OHIO

DEAR WISER NOW: You are not the first man to wind up with
indigestion from too much arm candy. But this happened 20
years ago and you have grown since then. It's time to stop
punishing yourself and open yourself to new possibilities.
There are many out there. Trust me on that.

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DEAR ABBY: My sister is showing signs of Alzheimer's, but
she is in denial and refuses to face the issue. I would like
to get her medical help. Our mother had the disease and my
sister is probably scared. Any advice?
-- BIG BROTHER IN FLORIDA

DEAR BIG BROTHER: If your sister is without a spouse or
children, her doctor should be notified about your concerns.
You also need to talk to her, to ensure that she has an
advance directive for health care and powers of attorney in
place in the event that she "might" become unable to make
decisions for herself.

While the thought of preparing these documents can be scary,
NOT having them is far scarier should any incapacitating
health-care crisis arise. This needs to be done while your
sister still has the capacity to make rational decisions.

The Alzheimer's Association can be a valuable resource in a
situation like this, so please don't hesitate to contact it.
The toll-free, 24-hour helpline is (800) 272-3900. The web-
site is www.alz.org.



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