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May 19, 2010

AFFAIR WITH STRIPPER EXPOSED BY PAPER TRAIL FROM JEWELRY

DEAR ABBY: My husband had an affair with a stripper. I found
out about it because he bought her some jewelry and was
stupid enough to have the bill sent to our home.

We have been married more than 20 years and I love him, but
this haunts me every day. I am heartbroken, but I'm trying
to make our marriage work. He never admitted to any of it
and says nothing happened between them.

I don't know whether to keep on trying or leave him and hope
to get on with my life. What's your advice?
-- WOUNDED HEART IN OKLAHOMA

DEAR WOUNDED HEART: You have my sympathy, but one person
can't save a marriage alone. It takes effort on the part of
both husband and wife, plus honest communication and often
professional counseling to heal a relationship when there
has been infidelity. Your husband may say "nothing" happened
with the stripper, but the only man I can think of who
bought jewelry for a woman he wasn't related to or romantic-
ally involved with was Michael Jackson when he gave some to
Elizabeth Taylor.

Even though you love your husband, it's time to start taking
care of yourself. And the place to start is by insisting on
professional counseling. If he won't go, go without him.

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DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have a 24-year-old development-
ally disabled son who lives with us. Three months ago, he
met a nice girl at the mental health program he attends.
They hold hands, go to the movies and occasionally smooch.

Recently, "Jasper" had a mark on his neck. We were over at a
friend's house for dinner when my best friend noticed the
mark. She then proceeded to tell me I should consider getting
Jasper "fixed." At first, I wasn't sure I'd heard her cor-
rectly, so I asked her to repeat it. I am shocked that she
thinks I should have my son sterilized.

Jasper is diagnosed with ADD and Asperger's syndrome.
According to his mental health counselor, he could someday be
married, have children and lead a productive, independent
life. It just may take him longer to get to that point in
comparison with his peers.

How should I respond to my friend about her suggestion? When
she made it, I didn't know what to say.
-- SPEECHLESS IN NEW HAMPSHIRE

DEAR SPEECHLESS: If you still want to maintain the friend-
ship with the woman, tell her what your son's mental health
counselor said about his prospects for the future. But
first, if you haven't already, make sure Jasper clearly
understands everything he needs to know to protect himself
and his nice girlfriend from premature parenthood.



DEAR ABBY: Please answer a question for me. Why do we fall
in love with people who we absolutely, positively cannot
have?
-- HEARTBROKEN IN INDIANAPOLIS

DEAR HEARTBROKEN: You have asked a question for which there
is more than one answer. Some people do it because they
don't recognize the warning signs quickly enough to back off
before becoming enmeshed. Others can't resist a challenge.
And still others do it because -- believe it or not -- it's
less threatening than falling in love with someone we
absolutely, positively CAN have.



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